Reasons why you remain SINGLE (ladies take note)

Why you remain single lady over time

It is no news that even  the better of the best of ladies isn't finding it pleasant when it comes to holding on to a particular partner .They seem to have searched within  them for the best  reasons as to the occurrence of this phenomenon "WHY AM I STILL SINGLE"...

Definitely  through thorough search and research, the answer will become so obvious  but  the element  of hiding  from the truth still lingers..

If a lady  keeps  paying  tribute to the following attributes subconsciously or consciously  then the Single's World is her  Abode...

Here  comes the Reasons to the unsolved PUZZLE: WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?

1. ARROGANCE
You are proud, yet you expect a man to approach you, you are extremely on your own. You are not afraid to talk back at any human, You find fault in every man that  left  timidity all in the name of expressing  himself.You are fast to compare men as they come .. Forget  it You  million  miles  far from  bustop.

2. WEALTH SHOWCASING
In today's world Men want their  ladies  to have  good financial  strength, they seem to be allergic to the statement"I'm incapacitated financially" as it isn't  pleasant  to the ears... but not to the extent of you having and also making it conspicuous, you have it more than the man especially when you are searching for more. Only “few” men don’t care about what your appearance speaks. Most men will not even want to come close once they weigh how buoyant you are financially through your appearance, when they know your appearance alone can buy them and their generation.
Be wise!! financial buoyancy is okay but financial flambuoyancy is far from okay.


3. SET PREFERENCE
Ladies that belong to this category are those that keep saying i want a man that is extremely rich or educated or good looking or tall or short or someone with 6-packs or dark or light or with  wide  chest or with beards and so on.
Well, no big deal setting preference, but the issue comes in when your preference does not choose you, what will then happen? Hmmm a crazy world we live in. Love doesn’t know preference, wonder why some ladies in their matrimonial home keeps pondering ,wondering and even wandering(runs)..lol.. as to why they settle for what they have never set as preference as their dream partner.

 4. STONE FACE
Some ladies appearance alone implies “do not trespass” so, you shouldn’t expect any reasonable man to even come closer. Even a man that is very serious naturally or extremely religious will not take a second look at your grimace-filled looking face let alone someone that is cheerful.(baby girl  take  it easy  ..life is too short to be crossed with)


 5. PRETENDERS
This is common not just among women but even among men. When you claim to be what you are not. What you are to Mr A is different from what Mrs. B knows you for. To you, you think they don’t know you forgetting this world is very small, they even know you more than you know yourself. You just need to keep your calm if you want a good man. It shouldn't be obvious you have more than your man, to the men watching you, they will feel you will never be submissive. Be cheerful and appreciate every man and let people know you for what you are and not what you claim to have.

Life generally is spontaneous..you really do not  have  to be dauntless... It is all down to how your simplicity simplifies life.

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