Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal development. Show all posts

Thursday, May 31, 2018

How to Live and Triumph in the Nigeria Society We Find Ourselves Today

By nature, there are some things that are basically unchangeable. Such is the case of; where we were born, who rode us in here, our gender (transgender case is abominable) and all sorts. The beauty of this description is that where we find ourselves goes a long way to determine our lifestyles, thought pattern/orientation, belief systems and behavioural patterns.

Sunday, July 09, 2017

Pursuing your Dreams in High Heels

Dreams in High Heels
Have you ever wondered why several years after you had a “dream” you still remain where you laid?
Have you also had the feeling that every(thing/one) around you is changing drastically without notifying you?
Well, these are some of the things life throws at your doorsteps and you need to assess how well you are handling them without a sweat. So, let’s talk about the dream.

A dream could simply mean any of these “imaginary events seen in the mind”, “a visionary scheme”, “a wild conceit or “an old fantasy”. As individuals, we all have those things in our mind that we wish or hope to have or become. Either positive or negative, a dream can be challenging as it may require some mental, spiritual or even physical efforts for its actualization. 

Hence, there is need to identify one’s dream as either positive or negative before moving it up the ladder of actualization. Kindly, stay positive if want to climb this ladder with your high heels on. Hey Ladies! Ever heard of this saying, “chase your dreams…in high heels of course”

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Well, this piece does not only apply to ladies nor models. It simply means achieving your ambitions with elegance and panache even if you have to be crippled or else, you may fall flat on your face chasing your dreams in unsuitable footwear. Kindly bear in mind the under-listed while keeping balance on your heels;
  • Keep your heels, head, and standard high: The main reason why you still remain on that bed spot where you had the dream is that you doubt your ability. Another saying goes thus: “the only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it”. Well, it’s true. Doubt is a negative influence on one’s dream, you keep telling yourself you cannot do what you have in mind because you think there are a thousand people out there who are better than you. It’s high time you get into your heels to rock your dream and when you fall, dust yourself and move on.
  • Don’t just think it, do it: A plan without action they say, is worthless. When you formulate ways on how to actualize your dream, there is also an urgent need to take a bold step of action in order to bring it to life. Looking around, you can identify some tycoons who actually started from nothing but are in great places today. These people acted on whatever idea they had in their mind and worked their way to the top. Failure to carry out any action in actualizing your dreams will keep you rooted to that “bed spot” while you watch others ascend that ladder.
  • Get your size: Can you think of a tangible reason why any girl would go shop for herself an oversized shoe? I think the reason is so far-fetched. In this current age, many people have neglected their own path just because they want the same dream as their friends/colleagues in high positions and great places. Well, it’s good to dream big but following one’s path and staying 100% committed to that path is essential. Of course, there are many shoes in the market with various sizes. Honourably, choose your size.
  • Don’t tie your dream to your heels: What beauty lies in a high heel without a matching purse? Let your dream complement your heels and step out in elegance. In essence, do not tie your dream to people that would pull you down and make you neglect your dream. Ever wondered why some celebrities’ appearance on air have been somewhat irregular after they got married? Well, there is more to that simple excuse of devoting more time to their new family. Being surrounded by people of equal mind generates new ideas, opinions, and suggestions on how to bring your dream to life and also enlarge one’s coast. Never underestimate the power of red lipstick (good people) and high heels!

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Why you Constantly GO Broke???

It is often said that no matter the largeness of one’s account balance (cash) luxuries of this world can usurp it within a twinkle of an eye. This is implying that all rich individual’s today have the tendency of getting richer or being broke if considerable care is not taken.
On realistic terms, the difference between richness and brokenness lies in the individual extent of financial education. Financial education imbibes/teaches how money can be managed, utilized for the optimum benefit of self and others. Do not be surprised by the fact that some individuals with highest degree of education lacks this financial knowledge while a common man flourishes with ease without a moment of being broke.
Moreover, the question of how you got broke should strike your heart at this moment irrespective of your financial earnings (daily, weekly, monthly, annually). So many people attached their misfortunes to spirituality, while some are of the opinion that their earning is at a low ebb. Above all explanation, it must be noted at this juncture that most occurrences (financial brokenness) is caused by your attitudes towards spending money.
To start with, human being are desirous of many things but they do not need all at once. Because human wants are insatiable, there lies the problem “being broke”. The attitude of getting what a friend got is not necessary except it’s a need and not a want.
On another note, spending money at will without a designated plan is another reason why you experience being broke. This is implying the individual does not understand how money works which reflects in what they referred to as ASSETS or LIABILITIES. The extent of understanding the implications of this two concept on spending terms makes some people richer and a mass poorer. Although, being broke does not restrict itself to spending alone as other factors comes to play e.g. government policies, unemployment, inflation.  
Nevertheless, individual positive attitudes towards money can singlehandedly break the chains of being broke amidst environmental pressures. To learn more about money management read; an article posted on this blog titled “Scale of Preference”, Poor Dad Rich Dad, Business in the 21st century by Robert Kiyosaki.
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